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Children/Youth Resources

Conquering Back-To-School Anxiety — Part 2

Causes

As always, in order to understand how to combat the problem, we first need to understand its causes. “Understanding the reasons that students avoid school is the first step in getting them to return,” writes school psychologist Mary Wimmer. In her 2008 article entitled “Why Kids Refuse to Go to School,” Wimmer stresses that school refusal or school avoidance can’t be attributed to a single cause, it results from a complex mix of factors including mental health problems, family issues and the school environment.

Mental health challenges, whether anxiety, depression, Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD), Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Panic Disorder or some combination of these, account for 90% of the cases of school refusal. According to authors Packer & Pruitt (2010), anxiety, more specifically Separation Anxiety, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Social/Performance Anxiety, is the leading cause of school avoidance behaviour, affecting 22% of school refusers.

Children with Separation Anxiety are usually very young, tend to be preoccupied with the possibility of harm befalling loved ones, and are overly dependent on their parents or caregivers. Social or Performance Anxiety, which accounts for 3.5% of school avoidances cases, is slightly different. Rather than worrying about loved ones, this type of anxiety disorder manifests itself as intense fear of judgement from others. As a result, children with this condition typically experience extreme nervousness prior to test taking, making presentations and participating in sports. Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), a diagnosis received by 10.5 % of children affected by school phobia, refers to excessive anxiety and worry about any number of different events and situations. Just like individuals with Performance Anxiety, students who struggle with GAD are usually very unsure of themselves. Unlike cases of performance anxiety, individuals with GAD are perfectionists about their schoolwork; they may also consider the world to be a threatening place. This type of anxiety is associated with secondary health problems including fatigue, restlessness, irritability, sleep problems and muscle tension.

In about 4.9% of case of school avoidance, depression is a primary casual factor. The presence of depression in school refusers is very serious as it is associated with very severe symptoms: self-mutilation, suicidal ideation, suicide attempts and uncontrolled worry.

In addition to mental health problems, scholars also point to school-based factors as drivers of school avoidance behaviour. Large class sizes, an authoritarian style of school management, a high level of discipline problems in school, large groups of low-achieving older students and school violence all can contribute to a student’s anxiety and worry about attending school.

These variables may be compounded by family factors as well. Unfortunately, identifying these factors in a specific case can be extremely difficult. “Parents of students who refuse to go to school for emotional reasons are a diverse group,” writes Wimmer. Some parents of school avoiders are healthy and high functioning, while others struggle with dependency, anxiety, depression, substance abuse, high levels of conflict, and/or emotional detachment. Specific events in the family can trigger school refusal behaviour including prolonged illness, a death of a parent, a vacation or even a weekend.

This is part two of a three-part daily series on back-to-school anxiety. Part three will be published on Friday.

Children/Youth Resources

Conquering Back-To-School Anxiety — Part 1

Fall is fast approaching, and in a few short days, it will be that time again—time to pick up the books, pack the school bag and head back to school!

For many school-aged children, it’s an exciting time—a chance to catch up with friends, swap stories about the summer, sport new outfits and show off new school supplies. It is important to remember, however, that not every child feels this way. For some kids, the prospect of returning to school is unsettling, even dreadful. Rather than feeling excitement, they feel intense fear and anxiety leading them to declare, “I hate school” or “I really, really don’t want to go to school.”

The layperson’s term for this phenomenon is “back-to-school anxiety.” Scholars of the subject call it school phobia, school avoidance or school refusal. Simply defined, these terms refer to any anxiety and fear associated with going to school that can result in a pattern of avoidance of, or refusal to attend, school. This is not to be confused with a dislike of or desire to avoid schoolwork. Quite the opposite; according to one scholar, “Those with true school refusal…are usually willing to complete school work as long as it’s done at home.”

School phobia/avoidance is no small problem. Studies suggest that it affects between 2-5% of all school-age children, with the highest incidence occurring among children between the ages of 5 and 6 (age 6 also happens to be the average age when someone with TS first starts experiencing symptoms).

Left unaddressed, school phobia can have serious consequences. In the short-term, it can lead to poor academic performance, parental conflict, and diminishing peer relationships. In the long-term, it can result in academic failure, school dropout and employment difficulties.

So, what can be done about it? Can it be curbed? Eliminated? Prevented? If so, how?

This is part one of a three-part daily series on back-to-school anxiety. Parts two and three will be published tomorrow and Friday, respectively.

Bullying Children/Youth Resources

The New Frontier of Bullying: Electronic and Cyber-Bullying

It used to be that bullying happened on the playground, in the classroom, or on the school bus. Thanks to technological improvements, bullying now occurs in cyberspace as well.

Cyber-bullying or electronic bullying is intentional, repeated harm inflicted on someone through electronic media such as the internet or cell phones. It includes using electronic devices to embarrass, exclude, harass, or harm another person. Common forms are text message bullying, email bullying, chat room bullying and bullying via instant messaging.

This new form of bullying is increasingly becoming a problem for children and youth in Canada. According the Journal of Youth Violence & Juvenile Justice, 30% of children and youth in grades 2 through 12 experience one or more instances of cyber bullying. A research report entitled “New Bottle but Old Wine” found that one third of children who are bullied by their peers at school are also victimized through electronic means.

For everyone reading this who thinks “It’s not happening to my kid,” think again. Research indicates that since electronic bullying is easily concealed, many adults underestimate the number of youth who are being victimized. Not only is electronic bullying hard to catch, it is also hard to punish due to freedom of speech rights that complicate the removable of hurtful speech on websites. Furthermore, some students are scared to report cyber-bullying because they don’t want to lose the use of the Internet or their phone or email.

What can you do?

  • Talk to your child about electronic bullying.
  • Make sure your son or daughter know that if they tell you about cyber-bullying they won’t lose their Internet or cell phone privileges.
  • Make it a rule that your son or daughter can only use technology in a respectful way.
  • Report any threats of harm or violence to the police.
  • Make sure that your son or daughter knows that they are a special, good person, regardless of what a bully says.
  • Be a positive role model.
Children/Youth TS Awareness

Connor draws about his Tourette

Connor F., a young boy with TS who lives in the Greater Toronto Area, had an In-service at his school recently. He was inspired to draw a picture expressing what it’s like to have TS. Connor’s mother sent a copy of his picture to us, and we think it’s just awesome. Here it is:

Yay Connor! That’s the spirit we all like to see in our young ones.

If you have a budding artist in your family and you’d like to share their talent, please send a copy of their TS-related work (a photo or a scan) to tsfc@tourette.ca.

 

Bullying Children/Youth Resources

Cover Your Bullying Bases

“Everyone has the right to be respected and the responsibility to respect others.”

It’s hard enough going back to school – new teachers, new classes, new lockers and so on – without the added stress of having to look over your shoulder to see who might be targeting you… yes, the bully has returned with you.

Too many children (one in seven students ages 11 to 16 according to one study) endure bullying in Canadian schools. When you add TS to the mix, it can all become pretty overwhelming.

With its often attention-drawing and easily mocked symptoms, TS unfortunately can and does make a child with the disorder an attractive target for bullies. Both the child and the parent need to be very aware about how to prevent bullying and deal with it if it does occur. This requires the parent(s) to educate themselves and their child about bullying and establish a relationship with each other that actively encourages open communication.

To become better informed, visit www.bullying.org, a Canadian website that has some valuable resources about bullying as well as current news. It’s one of many great anti-bullying websites out there.

You may also wish to check out Jaylen’s Challenge at www.jaylenschallenge.org. He’s a brave kid with TS+ who’s out to stop bullying all over the world:

Have you or someone you know had a bad experience with bullying? How did it get handled? Let us know in the comments or on our Facebook page.